frequently asked questions

At Remember Well – Thoughtful Tributes, Lasting Legacies

we understand that writing an obituary or memorial can be overwhelming during a time of loss. 

That’s why we’ve compiled this Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) section to guide you through our obituary writing services, pricing, revisions, and customization options. 

Whether you’re looking for an online obituary, newspaper tribute, eulogy, social media memorial, or a custom letter of remembrance, we’re here to make the process as simple, compassionate, and stress-free as possible.

Frequently Asked Questions

General
Questions

Remember Well is a professional obituary and memorial writing service that helps families create thoughtful, meaningful, and personalized tributes for their loved ones. Our expert writers craft compassionate, heartfelt, and beautifully written obituaries that honor a life well-lived.

We specialize in:
Traditional obituaries for newspaper and online publication
Extended life stories for legacy preservation
Eulogies for memorial services
Social media tributes for Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter/X
Personalized memorial letters

We understand how difficult it is to find the right words in moments of loss, and we’re here to support you with dignity, care, and expertise.

We’ve made it simple and stress-free to create a beautiful tribute for your loved one:

🔹 Step 1: Choose the type of obituary or memorial you need (Online Obituary, Newspaper Obituary, Eulogy, or Social Media Tribute).
🔹 Step 2: Fill out our guided form with key details such as your loved one’s life story, personality, and any special messages or quotes.
🔹 Step 3: Our professional writers craft a heartfelt and personalized tribute that honors your loved one’s legacy.
🔹 Step 4: Review your draft – You’ll receive the obituary for your approval and one free revision to ensure it’s perfect.
🔹 Step 5: Receive the final version in an editable Word document and print-ready PDF for easy sharing.

We are committed to helping you create a lasting, meaningful tribute with care and professionalism.

Absolutely! Every tribute should reflect the unique personality and spirit of your loved one. That’s why we offer a variety of writing styles to match your preferences:

💙 Thoughtful & Reflective – A warm and heartfelt tribute that captures the depth of their life.
⚖️ Respectful & Reverent – A dignified, formal obituary honoring their legacy with grace.
🌞 Celebratory & Uplifting – Focuses on joyful moments and a life well-lived.
😂 Cheerful & Lighthearted – A loving tribute with humor and cherished memories.
✒️ Poetic & Lyrical – A beautifully written, artistic expression of their story.
📖 Personal & Storytelling-Focused – A rich, narrative-style tribute filled with milestones.
🌟 Inspirational & Legacy-Driven – Highlights their impact, values, and contributions.
🤗 Gentle & Comforting – A soft, reassuring tone to provide solace and connection.
🙏 Spiritual & Faith-Based – Incorporates religious or spiritual elements if desired.
Short & Simple – A concise yet heartfelt obituary with key details.

Want to mix two styles together? No problem! We can blend different tones to create a tribute that truly feels authentic and personal.

📝 Want a poem instead of a traditional obituary? We can do that too! Our writers can craft a beautiful, poetic tribute to honor your loved one in a unique and meaningful way.

Not sure which style to choose? Let us know a little about your loved one, and we’ll recommend the best approach to capture their story.

Yes! Every order includes one complimentary revision to ensure your obituary perfectly reflects your loved one’s story.

📝 If you need additional revisions, you can request them for a small fee of $25 per revision.
🚀 If you need a complete rewrite, we offer a premium revision package to refine and expand the tribute.

Your loved one’s story matters, and we’re here to help you capture their legacy with accuracy and care.

If you want to change anything within the memorial yourself, you own it to are free to change it as you please.

📆 Standard delivery: 2-3 business days
Rush service: 24-hour delivery available for an additional fee

We understand that obituaries and memorials are often time-sensitive. That’s why we offer a fast turnaround without compromising quality. If you need a last-minute tribute for a funeral or memorial service, we can prioritize your order.

Service-Specific Questions

An online obituary is a 500-750 word personalized tribute that captures the essence of your loved one’s life. It includes:
✅ A detailed life story with key milestones
✅ Personality traits and cherished memories
✅ Acknowledgment of family and loved ones
✅ Memorial service details (if applicable)
✅ Optional personal anecdotes or favorite quotes

  • Online Obituary: A longer, more detailed tribute with room for storytelling and personalization.
  • Newspaper Obituary: A shorter, structured obituary (150-250 words) formatted for print publication with essential details only.
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Our guided Eulogy Form ensures we capture the most meaningful details. We’ll ask for:
📌 Personal stories and memories
📌 Your loved one’s values and legacy
📌 Key milestones in their life
📌 Any messages you’d like to share on their behalf

Yes!  We create heartfelt, shareable social media obituaries (100-150 words) ideal for Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter/X. Each post includes:
✨ A meaningful summary of your loved one’s life
💬 A heartfelt quote
🕊️ A call to remembrance

Absolutely. Whether you need a letter of condolence, a tribute for a memorial service, or a personal remembrance letter, we craft a message tailored to your recipient and relationship.

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Both services honor loved ones, but they serve different purposes. Here’s how they compare:

1️⃣ Purpose & Depth
  • A Memorial Letter is a personal message written directly to a loved one (or their family), often expressing emotions, gratitude, or closure. It is shorter, intimate, and conversational in tone.
  • A Legacy Tribute is a detailed memorial narrative that captures a person’s full life story, often including key milestones, achievements, and legacy impact. It requires more research, structuring, and storytelling to create a meaningful tribute.
 
2️⃣ Format & Complexity
  • A Memorial Letter is generally one page, structured more like a heartfelt, personal letter. It requires emotional sensitivity but does not involve extensive biographical storytelling.
  • A Legacy Tribute is a formal written piece with a narrative arc, requiring a deeper storytelling approach, structured flow, and additional refinement.
 
3️⃣ Time & Craftsmanship
  • The process of writing a Legacy Tribute takes longer due to the need to weave together a cohesive and engaging life story, rather than a more straightforward message of remembrance.
 
4️⃣ Intended Use
  • Memorial Letters are often meant for private reading, shared within close family circles or as a personal note of remembrance.
  • Legacy Tributes are typically public-facing memorials, designed for online obituaries, funeral programs, or as a lasting keepsake.

A Legacy Tribute is a deeply personal and storytelling-driven remembrance of a loved one’s life. While an Online Obituary or Tribute can be similar in length, the content and purpose of each differ.

Legacy Tribute

  • A heartfelt reflection on a person’s life, character, and legacy.
  • Often keepsake-style, crafted for memorial services, family remembrance, or printed programs.
  • May not include details like funeral arrangements, surviving family lists, or formal obituary structure.

🌐 Online Obituary or Tribute

  • Designed for public online sharing, such as funeral home websites, memorial pages, or social media.
  • May include structured obituary elements such as funeral details, a list of surviving family members, and donation requests.
  • Can still be deeply personal but is typically formatted for easy reading online.

Both serve to honor a life well lived—but a Legacy Tribute focuses on personal storytelling and reflection, while an Online Obituary or Tribute is structured for public memorialization and may include additional logistical details.

Customization & Pricing Questions

Can I add religious or spiritual elements?

Yes! If you’d like a faith-based or spiritual tone, simply specify it in the order form. We can include:
🙏 Prayers
📖 Scriptures
🌿 Spiritual reflections that align with your beliefs

Each package includes a set word count, but you can add extra words for $40 per additional 250 words to include more details about your loved one’s story.

SEO Keywords: extended obituary, long-form obituary writing, obituary word count

Yes! Choose from our obituary packages:

  • Essential Memorial Package ($175) – Includes an online obituary, social media tribute, and newspaper obituary
  • Legacy Package ($295) – Includes an online obituary, newspaper obituary, memorial letter, and social media tribute
  • Celebration of Life Package ($395) – Includes a full eulogy and extended life story

No! The price you see is the price you pay. Optional add-ons (such as rush delivery or additional word count) are clearly listed before checkout.

Yes! We partner with funeral homes, memorial services, and estate planners to provide discounted rates for multiple obituaries. Contact us for bulk pricing.

refunds and
revisions

Due to the custom nature of our services, refunds are not available once writing has begun. However, we offer one free revision to ensure your obituary meets your expectations.

We include one free revision with every order. If you need further changes, additional revisions can be purchased for $25 per revision.

Yes! Additional edits beyond the first free revision are available for $25 per revision.

Rush orders are non-refundable once work has started. If a rush order has been placed but has not yet begun, a partial refund (minus processing fees) may be available.

If there’s an error on our part, we’ll correct it at no charge—simply contact us within 48 hours of receiving your order.

submission & technical details

We format the obituary according to newspaper guidelines, but you’ll need to submit it directly to the publication. Each newspaper has different word limits and pricing, so check with them before submission.

Not at this time. However, we provide a formatted digital obituary that can be shared on:
🖥️ Memorial websites
⚰️ Funeral home pages
📲 Social media

You’ll receive your obituary in:
📄 Editable Word Document (for easy modifications)
🖨️ Print-Ready PDF (for sharing and printing)

Yes! If your platform allows, we can include:
📸 Photos
🖋️ Special formatting
💬 Embedded quotes

Simply upload your images in the order form.

Yes! We partner with funeral homes to provide high-quality, customized obituaries at discounted rates. Contact us for partnership details.

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